
When your child knows the material at home but still doesn’t get good grades in exams, it is hugely frustrating for both child and parents. It is often accompanied by feelings of helplessness and incomprehension—does the child simply not try hard enough? But be careful: careless mistakes are often the real reason. An annoying and persistent problem for many children, but one that can be solved with specific strategies.
The root cause of most of this is time pressure in exams. Focused on finishing, children forget to be careful—no matter how often they have been reminded beforehand. The first step is therefore always to practise time management with the child. At the start of every exam, take a moment to plan roughly how much time is available per task, and then get on with solving the tasks—always do the easy ones first and leave the difficult ones until last. Only then can you keep a cool head.
And only with a cool head is the child able to apply all the other specific strategies against careless mistakes.
For example:
- In maths, write down every step. Trying to do small calculation steps in your head is the source of most careless mistakes. This also applies to units of measurement, which are easily mixed up and cost points. Always write them down too!
- After each task: quickly check your calculation! Does it make sense? For example, with subtractions: does adding give you the original value again?
- For spelling: always plan it as a separate step at the end. First the writing phase, then take a quick breath, then the checking phase. It can help, for example, to go through the words backwards. This tricks the brain’s “careless mode”.
Every child also has their own specific careless mistakes that they make again and again (for example, mixing up minus and plus, misspelling certain words, forgetting capital letters). These need to be identified and avoidance strategies tailored to the child need to be practised. With a bit of creativity and persistence, this works in most cases. Repetition is key: the right strategies for avoiding mistakes must be practised often and for long enough until they become automatic and are not forgotten even under exam pressure.
And when the first successes start to appear, the joy for both child and parents is huge. We will be happy to advise you on this topic!
